Cisgender norms are everywhere in the wedding industry. That can make it hard to know where to begin finding gender neutral wedding outfits. After all, there’s no single way to be nonbinary. Nonbinary people can wear suits, dresses, or really anything to their wedding. Here are some of our favorite ideas to help you dream up your ideal wedding outfit along with some designers we think you’ll love.  

5 Gender Neutral Wedding Outfits

1. A corset

Corsets are a perfect example of how something old can become new again. More celebrities have been wearing corsets and harnesses in the last few years, but trends aside, they’ve always been a great way to add structure and interest to an outfit. 

2. Color

Is there a color that makes you feel like yourself? Why not incorporate it into your wedding day? Cal and Caleb wore blue and red and used accessories to tie their looks together. 

3. Texture and embroidery

We’re seeing more embroidered suits in wedding wear, which is very cool. Texture can bring a lot of life to an outfit! 

4. A wedding cape

Capes bring elegance and drama to any wedding attire. Cal’s sheer floral cape was so much fun for photos.

5. A crown

Why not give your wedding attire a regal touch? Crowns are gorgeous, dramatic, and come in just about every style you can imagine. 

6 Wedding Designers You’ll Love

Getting inspiration for gender neutral wedding outfits is just one piece of the puzzle. Next you need to find designers to bring that vision to life. Here are some of our favorite clothing and accessory designers.

QueeraWang

Queera is a unique brand that creates highly customized pieces blending masculine and feminine elements. We love these designs. They let you play with gender without confining you, and there are lots of glam moments with these pieces.

Wildfang

For a more budget-friendly suit, check out Wildfang. They specialize in trendy, cool outfits. Wildfang carries suits in bold colors and patterns, so check them out if you want to ditch stiff, traditional suiting.

House of Bretón

Lei Bretón creates custom gender neutral wedding outfits for marriers of all sizes and abilities. They’re so innovative, and their designs go way beyond suits. We’re talking jumpsuits, dresses, capes, and more. Learn more about Lei and House of Bretón here.

Starkers Corsetry

If you love the idea of a corset, you’ve got to check out Starkers Corsetry. Dianna DiNoble creates bespoke corsets made to clients’ measurements. The designs are really unique, too. You can definitely find a statement piece here.

Teuta Matoshi

While this brand isn’t explicitly queer, their dresses are very cool. Their bridal collections tend to be high femme with lots of embellishment. The 2023 collection featured every kind of floral detail you can imagine. The colorful dresses from their other collections would be fun options, too, if you’re not married to wearing white.

Madison Chamberlain

This is your one-stop shop for vibrant wedding accessories. Madison Chamberlain makes capes, veils, and gloves that would make amazing additions to gender neutral wedding outfits. 

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